Thursday, November 30, 2006

intuition is nothing
Too much expectations lead to disappointments. Expecting something , in the first place, almost always leads to pain. That's the reason why people get hurt. They shouldn't blame fate, or life, or love. They should blame themselves. Because it is possible to love without expecting anything. But that would be martyrdom. And, well, di na uso yun ngayon. The trend nowadays is to fight for what you believe in, for what you feel. Nevermind that it hurts. Nevermind that sometimes, what you are fighting for is a lost cause. Nevermind that the battle you are fighting in has already been fought. And nevermind that you are also hurting other people in the process.
Because people are selfish. Yes, it all comes down to this. Why else would we fight for a person? Because we want this person to be ours. Why else would we fight for what we believe in? Because we want to prove that we're right.
And why, eventhough it hurts, do we let go of people we love? Because we want them to be happy. Nevermind that it's not with us. And eventhough it hurts like hell, we still do it anyway, thinking that we're doing it for the one person that we love. But no. We do it for ourselves. Yes, we want our loved ones happy. But why? Because seeing them happy makes us happy. Get it?
Martyrdom? Nope.
Selfishness is more like it.
And my point is?? Wala. Nothing. Nada. Non.